It’s easy to fall into the trap of believing that every outing with the kids has to be an elaborately planned event they’ll remember forever. I used to think that I had to compete with the many organized outings the school or church plan. I’m glad they have the opportunities to visit places such as [...]
The Amazing Letter Opener
June 28, 2008 by Leave a Comment
I first read about this the warning label for the Staples brand letter opener in Consumer Reports and it still makes me laugh. “The clean and quick choice” makes this model sound like the ideal choice for those who can’t wait to get through their snail mail. That is until you get to the the [...]
Here’s What I Realized Today
June 26, 2008 by 9 Comments
One of my friends is a dentist improves people’s smiles and self confidence. My father taught high school kids for over 30 years and influenced thousands of kids for the better. My mother-in-law was an advocate for people with disabilities and improved many lives over many years. Another friend counsels high-risk youth and saves lives. [...]
The Joys of Family
June 23, 2008 by 3 Comments
I remember the exact place and time. I was standing in our kitchen in our small home in Woodinville, WA. Kim stood next to me. I could tell she was excited about something but was waiting for the right time to tell me. She was giddy and nervous and I wasn’t quite sure what to [...]
A Performance Review for Fathers?
June 22, 2008 by 1 Comment
Once a year I meet with my boss who critiques my performance for the past year. He tells me what he expects from me going forward and I try to answer his questions in a manner that leads to earning a raise. Maybe I’m asked to set a few goals to keep HR happy, but [...]
Perpetual Interruptions
June 21, 2008 by 1 Comment
When is the last time you sat down to discuss a topic with a friend and they gave you their full attention? Did you look at each other eyes and actively listen to each other without being interrupted by a cell phone or email or text message? Coworkers are the worst offenders. I can’t think [...]
Just Add Water
June 21, 2008 by Leave a Comment
I’ve stumbled onto a secret yesterday that I’m surprised I didn’t recognize earlier: Water + Chore = Fun For example, asking one my children to feed the dog results in more than a few “why me?” shrugs. But ask one of them refill the dogs water dish and fight breaks out over who gets to [...]
The Couch Cushion Fort
June 18, 2008 by 1 Comment
My parents had an old brown and orange couch with big puffy cushions that I’d assemble into my own Bat Cave. It was my own little domain. At least for a few minutes before the whole thing would collapse and I’d scramble to get the cushions back on the couch before mom busted me. So [...]
