Haircuts

A friend from grade school shared with me that he had asked to be released from a time-consuming church calling to spend more time with his children. Another friend lamented how his son had recently left for college, and he wished they had spent more time together. My 6-year old son approached me after school, and asked if I’d play a computer game with him. What we do together matters … [Read more...]

Controlling God

I used to believe that I could control God. I know that sounds odd. It feels strange to write it out and read it, but it’s the truth. From a young age I was taught that god was watching my every move. Not only was he watching what I did and said, but he could read my thoughts. Based on that information, god would divvy out rewards based on how closely they matched his rule book. His rule … [Read more...]

Tactile Joy

From Scott Adams review of the iPhone 6 My heart was racing as I removed the phone from its strikingly well-designed packaging. Apple makes the process of opening a box feel as if you are winning a prize. Every color, shape, texture and probably smell has been studied and tweaked to perfection. Simply touching the product or its associated packaging is a tactile joy. A textbook example of … [Read more...]

Crucify Your Mind

My brother-in-law recommend a film called Searching for Sugar Man. I began listening to the soundtrack and came across this song. … [Read more...]

Manteca – Dizzy Gillespie

I could listen to this groove all day. Turn it up, close your eyes, and disappear into the musical mind of a genius. … [Read more...]

Comic Book Heaven

Comic Book Heaven from E.J. McLeavey-Fisher on Vimeo. … [Read more...]

Living in a Desert

I felt like I was back in Seattle. Rain poured down, canceling the Swiss Days parade in which my daughters were supposed to perform. By afternoon, clouds that had emptied themselves on the town were large enough to cover the sun, providing a much needed break from the heat. I changed into my sweatshirt and watched five epsides of The Middle with my kids. Sometimes the days filled with no … [Read more...]

No Second Chances

“Do you want to play pool? Just you and me.” “Sure”, replied Luca, trying to play it cool. Two of her siblings usually tag along when we play, but not today. I wanted to listen to Luca tell me about orchestra and history and student council without distractions. Of course there’s no guarantee she’ll share any details with me because she’s 13 … [Read more...]