A number of events over the past couple of weeks has me contemplating the importance of truth. Specifically, how important is truth when it comes to storytelling, history or religion. A few weeks ago, Kim and I attended an event where Carol Lynn Pearson discussed her book, Ghost of Eternal Polygamy. I haven't read the … Continue reading Is Truth Optional?
One thing I've noticed since stepping away from religion is how many choices I allowed it to make on my behalf. One quote I heard while I was a teenager: "When the prophet speaks, the debate is over." In other words, you're free to make your own choices, but the leader of the church has … Continue reading Raising Children Outside of Mormonism
My grandparents on both sides of my family lived in Bountiful, or about 30 minutes from our home in Ogden, Utah. We visited them often. My grandpa Tingey was the first person I knew who owned an Atari 2600, and I spent many hours sitting on my knees at a wobbly card table playing Asteroids, … Continue reading Standing Outside the Temple
I was 10 years old when the Mormon church lifted its ban on African Americans holding the priesthood. I was happy yet very confused because I'd been taught at home and in church that God cursed them with black skin because they had not been as valiant before they came to earth. Other people around … Continue reading You Have a Choice
Leaving your religion can feel like a lonely solo journey. When I decided to halt my activity in the Mormon church I felt Chuck from Castaway, stranded on my own island. Living in a small town in Utah didn't help my feelings of isolation. I joined a couple of Facebook groups full of people who … Continue reading You Are Not Alone
I was listening to Mormon Stories Podcast yesterday and got to the end of the first episode that covered the latest General Conference. Jamie Handis Handy talks about her role as a woman in the church, and knocks it out of the park. I'm glad that my two daughters won't grow up in a church … Continue reading What Mormon Women Get
Leaving the MTC for Germany was an exciting time. I'd never been out of the country, and I was headed to a country to teach people about my religion in a language I could barely speak. But I was with a group of people I'd learned to trust and love, and I figured I'd be … Continue reading Serving a Mormon Mission in Germany